To Give a 2nd Chance or To Not Give A 2nd Chance

Second chances are opportunities that are given to someone by another individual after that person has done something bad to them. Usually it is hard to come by second chances, but it is really based off the situation.

For instance, I was hurt by this guy and I stopped all communication with him. He went to my friends and family trying to win me back, however I didn't feel he needed a second chance because I was nothing but nice to him.

After hearing my family and friends out I realized that maybe I was being too harsh about the situation. Therefore, I took him back with caution and was skeptical until he could prove that my decision to take him back was the best.

However, that didn't happen. He continued to mistreat me and was not loyal. Everything my family and friends said were wrong. He blinded them with his sweet ways. This doesn’t just happen to the best of us, this is a universal problem when it comes to second chances.

            Others also make the decision whether to give people a second chance, so you are not the only one. For example, Robin Thicke and Paula Patton. Robin Thicke poured his heart out to her and she didn’t take him back. Despite the songs, “Forever Love” and “Get Her Back”, he wrote to get her back, she refused to take him back.

But I say this to say, only give second chances to people you want to give second chances too. Never give a person the advantage of doing you wrong or mistreating you. A famous idiom states “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me,” therefore you can't blame no one else but yourself. However, you can find out more about this scandal by clicking here: http://www.etonline.com/news/167257_robin_thicke_says_he_embarrassed_by_attempts_to_get_paula_patton_back/